Tis the season for friends, family, gifts, food, fun, and love. If you’re like most people, you visit the homes of your loved ones to share the joy of this special time of year. Since you’ve been welcomed as a guest into their home, it is imperative that you show proper etiquette and more importantly that you’re safe during your stay. Below are some tips on how you can be the best guest at your next holiday gathering.
Get a Gift for the Host or Hostess
Whether you’ve been asked to bring a dish or not, it is proper etiquette for holiday guests to bring a gift for the home or the host of the gathering. It is a small token of your appreciation for them allowing you to share in this special time with them. Make sure that you get a thoughtful gift that they can appreciate. Some ideas might include their favorite bottle of wine or alcohol, a sweet treat like cookies, or a home décor item like a nice vase, candle, throw, or picture.
Dress the Part
You don’t want to show up to your friend, family, or neighbor’s house looking out of place, so make sure that you plan your attire ahead of time. Though it may not be a fashion event, you still want to make sure that you
Don’t Overdo the Drinking
When the drinks get flowing, it can be tempting to keep sipping. However, most people aren’t interested in dealing with drunk friends and family members. Therefore, you’ll want to take it easy on the alcohol. What’s more, if you’re involved in an accident while under the influence, both you and the host of the event could get in trouble.
If you are, however, one who can’t say no to a good glass of wine or a shot of vodka, then play it safe. Perhaps install a
Don’t Stay Longer Than You’re Welcomed
Those who host holiday gatherings in their home have been working and stressed about the event long before it was time for you to show up. As much as they love you and appreciate you coming, there comes a time when you have to go. Do yourself a favor and don’t end up being the guest that never leaves or that the host has to physically kick out. Most people give a timeframe for the event so try to leave then unless you’re helping with the cleanup. If there was no time set, pay attention to the crowd, if everyone else is starting to head for the door, it doesn’t make sense for you to stick around.
Respect Their Home
Whether a family member, friend or neighbor, someone has invited you into their home. They have invested a lot of time and money into their home and
The holidays are certainly a great time to spend with those you love. As you’re welcomed into the homes of other, keep these etiquette tips in mind. A guest who treats the host and their home with respect is a guest that will be welcomed back year after year.
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