Take it from the experts—we asked 10 tiny home owners what they wished they’d known before downsizing.
When space is limited, less is more, and quality and craftsmanship take priority over quantity. Oftentimes, it’s this creative, minimalist mindset that inspires individuals, couples, and families to swap their larger abodes for
Making such a drastic change, however, doesn’t come without its challenges. That’s why we spoke with 10 tiny home owners: to get an insider perspective on scaling down, and practical advice on how to do it.
In 2010, Graham Hill, the founder of eco-friendly website
“If you’re lucky enough to live in a well-designed, small space, and have taken the time to edit and organize your life nicely within it, there’s a certain calmness that comes with that,” says Hill. “Living within your means financially and environmentally feels terrific, and having the right stuff (and not too much of it), in the right place, is a beautiful thing.”
His advice to potential tiny home owners is to “edit your stuff”: look for multifunctional furniture that can help you save space and money, and to “buy less, but better.”
He continues, “Smaller spaces can get messy quicker. The good news is that they can be tidied up quicker as well. Small spaces tend to force you to be a little more organized on the fly, and not to procrastinate, but rather to take a few extra seconds to put your things back where they belongs. I’ve heard it said that every object should have a home…and I think that’s great advice.”
“We used to find ourselves spending time in different rooms of the house, but now the kids read to each other in their bunks, go on biking adventures—and we all curl up together on the couches and watch movies together,” says Debbie. “Being in such a tiny space can be stressful at times, but we have so much more opportunity to connect. It’s completely changed us.”
For those looking to do DIY work on their own tiny home, Gabriel says, “Definitely do your research on builders, or how to properly do the work, and come up with the floor plan if you’re doing it yourself.”
When Atlanta–based couple Sheena and Jason Armstrong found a 1975 Airstream on eBay, they spent 10 months upgrading it themselves, and by 2016, were living in their amazing, 180-square-foot trailer home that they’ve lovingly named
For them, the best thing about living in a tiny home is being more connected to nature. “Because of the small space, you are almost at all times just an arm’s reach from a window or door,” says Jason. “You can easily hear the birds, the rain, and almost always feel the warm sun rays pouring through the windows. You just don’t get that in a traditional house.”
However, they warn that there’ll be an adjustment period when downsizing. Sheena recounts, “If you’re living with another person in a small space, you’ll learn a whole new level of patience and tolerance! Expect to be bumping into things for a while, and listening to noises you didn’t even know your significant other made.
“To us, stuff equals stress. I recently asked Jason what he hated most about tiny living, and he paused and said, ‘I’ll have to think about it.’ There really aren’t any downsides anymore. If you’d asked us for the downsides in the beginning, the list would be a mile long. But now, the simplicity outweighs it all.”
Boise, Idaho–based architectural designer
Miller says that she had thought it would be difficult living in such a small space, especially with kids, but after more than six years of living in a tiny house, she realizes that she couldn’t have been more wrong. “It’s not hard to live tiny,” she says. “It’s made our life so much better. We can work less, which gives us more time to do things together.”
Macy says it’s important to understand why a tiny house appeals to you in the first place. She explains, “If it’s a matter of convenience, or it seems ‘easy’ or ‘cute’, you may need to rethink it. Tiny houses aren’t the cheapest, or easiest path to shelter, but they can be an incredible tool to use to position yourself for a lifestyle you want, whether that’s adventure, travel, passion-driven work, time with family, or financial freedom. Tiny houses are—exactly as Le Corbusier said—machines for living. They provide you with exactly what you need, so you can save time, money, and energy to live the lifestyle you really want.”
Seattle couple Duff Bangs and Ashley Rogers took a leap of faith, quit their nine-to-five jobs, sold their condo, and started traveling in a 200-square-foot tiny trailer that they designed themselves. Now settled in Eastern Washington, Bangs and Rodgers have their own business,
They both agree that the best part about living in a tiny home is having less stuff. “A limited amount of storage space makes us very conscious about purchasing new things, which, most of the time, we don’t even really need,” says Rodgers.
“If you’re thinking of a trailer home, think about where will you park,” says Bangs. “Consider your utility hookups, and how and where you are going to connect your power, water, and sewer. You will also need to consider your power and water usage as your capacities (such as a smaller hot water heater) can be limited when living in a small space.”
For their 140-square-foot micro-apartment in London,
“Rent a small place on Airbnb to try out small-space living first,” advises Tolstrup. “Instead of getting rid of a lot of stuff in one go, put things in storage, then slowly dispose of them a year or two later, when you realize that you don’t really miss, or need them.”
She continues, “Use the freedom a tiny home is giving you to get out more. Use your city, invite your friends out to nice places, travel more. Making your home tiny should make something else you care about grow bigger.”
Making your home tiny should make something else you care about grow bigger.
Phoenix–based, RV fixer-upper couple
“I think some of the best things that come from living tiny is the time you gain,” says Trina. “Time you can spend with your family and friends doing more of what you love. I don’t think we realize how much time we put into cleaning, organizing, and maintaining a large home. The most surprising thing was how easy it was to live with so few possessions.”
San Francisco–based artist
“I’ve lived in a lot of tiny, micro, and alternative housing,” says Nelson. “You imagine living in a tiny home as a way of simplifying your life, but the reality is a little different. For example, living in a camper without a toilet presents challenges that we might take for granted. The important thing is being realistic about what you and your family need, then building your home around those needs.”
“If you’re thinking of downsizing, it’s important to consider the climate that your home will be in. I think the tiny home really works well in warmer, tropical climates where you can spent a lot of time outdoors, especially if you are a family with kids,” he says.
After months traveling cross-country in a Volkswagen van, Seattle couple
Says Lawyer, “You have to choose to live differently in a tiny home. It’s a more intentional, and thoughtful way of life. As you bring in new things you need, you’ll have to let go of old things, or you’ll be buried alive in your possessions.”
Lawyer and Bashaw have also changed the types of gifts they get for each other, choosing experiences over things: “For instance, I’ll get Brett a class instead of a new item, or we’ll go on a trip instead of buying something new. It can be a little difficult, and there are definitely parts of it I struggle with. Tiny living is about how you want to live and spend your time, and I think ultimately, you need to be honest about this.”
This couple from Oregon renovated and lived in a 1966 Airstream Overlander, which they dubbed
One thing the couple hadn’t fully anticipated was the amount of work renovating a vintage Airstream would involve. “Nobody thought the project was going to get finished,” says Schmitt. Adds Jacobs, “We thought it would take around eight months to renovate, but it ended up being closer to 15 months.”
But they persisted, and now believe that their inexperience led to the best possible outcome. “Nothing really went the way we planned. It took longer, and cost more money than we thought it would—but in the end, it was also way more rewarding than I ever thought it would be,” says Schmitt.